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You’re a first generation immigrant kid. Your mom’s primary mission was survival through perfection (perfect clothes, perfect make-up, perfect home) in an environment that was foreign and frightening to her. You’re now 37, and everytime you try to launch your sales page, you get a near panic attack because your nervous system is telling you that if it’s not perfect, you’ll lose everything.
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You come from a lineage that experienced slavery. Everyone before you took a stable job, worked quietly and steadily to bring the family towards financial freedom and safety. You’re an entrepreneur who has big ideas to improve the quality of life for your community, but you feel blocked every time you try to share your work on a larger level, because your nervous system is telling you that if you are seen moving through the world with pride and with dignity, your whole family will be at risk.
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You saw every woman you were related to sacrificing their own well-being for the needs of the family. You vow never to put yourself in that position and throw yourself into your career. You experience monumental success but constantly feel drained, exhausted, and empty, because your nervous system is telling you that extractive relationships (i.e. your current work situation) are the best place to call home.
1:1 Ancestral Healing
for leaders and changemakers
steward good work without self-sacrifice
You've built movements, communities, and legacies.
You've carried your people forward - often on your own back.
But have you paused to consider whose weight you're actually carrying?
The future of your wellbeing
depends upon healing the patterns of your family's past.
DOES THIS SOUND
LIKE YOU?
- You meet every standard for success but continue to feel like you're never enough and not where you need to be.
- You've invested years in therapy, coaching, and personal growth - but feel stuck in patterns of self-abandonment and burnout.
- You can materially afford to slow down, but don't know who you'd be if you stopped working.
The problem isn't you.
The problem is the generational trauma that came before you.
Geeky Science Break
Our nervous systems are inherited.
You carry the imprint of 254 nervous systems (7 generations worth).
The egg that became you developed when your mother was 5 months in utero.
Which means your cells have been absorbing and recording survival patterns long before you were born.
Did your ancestors survive by working twice as hard for half as much?
Did they survive by centering the needs of everyone else and ignoring their own?
Did they make it here by dimming their light so that others could shine?
These are the survival-based behaviors you've inherited.
You can't survive this way forever.
Examples of how intergenerational trauma can appear in your life:
Frequently Asked Questions
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How does family constellation therapy work?
Family constellation therapy is easier to experience, harder to describe. We'll use objects to create a visual representation of the issue you're facing. I’ll guide you through a process of gathering body sensations as you connect with each aspect the situation. The body sensations you share help me identify how intergenerational trauma is being stored within your nervous system. From there, I’ll facilitate a release process, so that you can safely let go of the trauma that isn’t yours to carry.
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How many sessions will I receive?
10 weeks of support, meeting every other week (5-session structure) • Each session is approximately one hour, give or take • Arc of our work will be collaboratively developed in our first session • Journaling and reflective meditation activities provided between session • Voxer support between sessions
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What if I don't know my biological family?
You don’t need to know the details of your lineage in order to release ancestral trauma. Because you are here, we know that you have a lineage and that lineage has shared information which is in your nervous system today.
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What if I don't like my biological family?
You don't have to. Family is yours to define, and we will find our way into the healing work in a way that works for you.
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How do I know if this will work for me?
The work works best with folks who value personal development and who appreciate the geeky science vibe (epigenetics) along with energetic components of healing.
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What is the investment?
$3000 USD, pay in full.
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How will I know if it's the right time for me to do this work?
I encourage people to listen to their bodies. If you feel a stronger sense of opening and yearning to lean into this work (as opposed to tightening and constriction), it may be the right time. I invite you to book a connection call with me and continue listening to your own intuitive wisdom.
This program may
be for you if…
- You are self-employed or largely responsible for carving your own professional path
- Each month, you have enough to cover your needs yet still find yourself stressed about your finances.
THIS PROGRAM MAY
NOT BE FOR YOU IF...
- Investing in this program meant you could not care for your daily housing and food needs A baseline degree of stability is important while doing this work.
- You believe that money is evil. I don't hate money (at all). It is a resource, an energy, a tool that moves as we move it.
About Me
I grew up in an upper-caste, middle class household. My mother paid for my undergraduate education, and has always had my back emotionally. My first career was in the arts and my second was in trauma services, specifically suicide prevention and rape crisis advocacy. I became accustomed to a non-profit annual salary of $35k, living in California, and making it work.
In 2019, Jumakae introduced me to the idea that money works through energetic flow and that in order to receive money, we also have to invest money. At the time, I was $212k in debt from grad school, without stable housing, and working at a nonprofit that severely undervalued my labor.
I made my first big investment to work with Dez Davis aka The Rich Witch. Five minutes after my final session with Dez, I walked into my boss’s office and successfully leveraged a pay increase from $38/hour to $150/hour.
I have been a 6-figure business owner each year since, accustomed to being in the flow of $10k-$25k a month.
FAQs
WHAT IS ANCESTRAL MONEY TRAUMA?
When trauma is hidden, it repeats.
Common patterns of ancestral money trauma include cycles of feast-and-famine, chronic self-sabotage, and an entanglement between money, pain, and self-sacrifice.
HOW DO KNOW IF MY MONEY PROBLEMS ARE RELATED TO ANCESTRAL TRAUMA?
Reflect upon your own financial worries. Then ask yourself, “Has anyone else in my family worried about this?”
If the answer is yes, it is likely that ancestral trauma affects your relationship with money.
I CAN’T ATTEND LIVE. WILL THERE BE RECORDINGS?
You will have access to all class recordings, however this is a class that is meant to be attended live.
Honor your investment and prioritize live participation.
HOW LONG WILL I HAVE ACCESS TO CONTENT?
You will have access to content for the lifetime of the program.
HOW DO I KNOW IF THIS PROGRAM IS A GOOD FIT FOR ME?
Pay attention to your body as you are reading about the program.
If you are beginning to feel tingly, softer, or more alive, the program will likely be a good fit for you.
Your body is wise when it comes to guiding you towards your healing.
WHAT KIND OF RESULTS CAN I EXPECT?
Your results will be yours beloved.
Some clients reported immediate increases in income by the end of the program, while others reported emotional shifts that significantly improved their quality of life.
WHAT IF I DON’T KNOW OR AM ESTRANGED FROM MY FAMILY?
It is okay if you do not know who your ancestors are or if you do not want to engage with the family you have.
Family is yours to define. The information we need is within your nervous system.
Arriving as you are is enough.
IS THIS CHANNELING WORK?
No, this is nervous system work.
The modality we’ll be using is family constellation therapy, which is a form of ancestral healing.
Family constellation therapy allows the practitioner (me) to identify how intergenerational trauma has been stored within your nervous system followed by a process to release it.
WILL I MAKE MORE MONEY AFTER THIS PROGRAM?
I sure hope so!
Ultimately, healing your relationship with money has many moving parts. This course is not a magic wand that will erase capitalism and systemic oppression.
It will however equip you to trust that money can be used for collective good. This shift is part of what will enable you to promote your work more openly and in ways that are financially sustainable.
Are there payment plans?
There are no payment plans. The investment is pay-in-full, with a special bonus shared on the application call.
